Ideal and real college life
I believe that many of my friends have fantasized about what life in college will be like before entering college, and they have great longings for life in college. But after actually entering college and experiencing it for myself, I found that many people were far from their ideals. Therefore, today, I will share with you the experience of people who have lived in the past and analyze in detail how your ideal college life is different from reality.
Have you ever imagined that you would be able to major in college?
Is it true that I can’t read?
When talking about the most impressive story I’ve ever heard, some people’s teacher said to them when they were in primary and secondary school: “You study for your brains, but you won’t study when you get to college. 4 You can go play games in the new year!” What’s the truth? Is it true that you don’t want to study?
The correct answer is of course no. You still have to study when you go to college. As for the explanation, what is the above sentence? Because, and indeed, students have much greater freedom after going to college than in middle school. Unlike middle school, where the time for returning to school every day has been set, college students can freely decide how to use their daily time, and there will not be a class teacher urging you to go to class while you are in isolation. Because of this, some people will continue to study diligently and strive for good grades, while others will allocate their time to other things, such as participating in different activities, going to the bank, etc. But just because you have greater freedom and more time to do what you want to do, it doesn’t mean you can’t study in college. Similarly, most courses in universities will have assignment, mid-term and final exams. Even in university, everyone has to study, review and do assignments, so Qianqi should not have the above illusion and feel that studying in university is not necessary!
The degree of freedom is great, but you still have to keep reading the books.
Does college have to be good at social skills?
Someone else said: "College must be social, so it is colorful." Is this true?
As someone who has been through this, I would suggest that you think about your goals. As mentioned above, the degree of freedom in university is really much greater. Everyone can freely allocate their own time and choose the activities they want to participate in. The activities in college are very different from those in middle school. There are many different activities for you to participate in. At the same time, some people think that when they go to college, they must try it out and force themselves to be spiritual, so that they can get to know people first and go to college first. At this time, I felt that I needed to think about what my purpose was, whether it was really necessary, and whether it was really me. Because everyone has a different personality, some are extroverted and active, while others are more introverted. Not everything about college is suitable for everyone. Think about what is best for you first. You don't need to follow what others say. Just force yourself to do what others say. Remember that your college career is yours and you should choose where to spend it.
Have you ever thought about what Social is for?
Summarize
In fact, after entering college, everyone will have a lot of freedom to decide how they want to spend their college career, so I hope everyone can find the college life that suits them best and have good memories during the four years of college!
